{"id":321,"date":"2014-07-20T21:42:00","date_gmt":"2014-07-20T20:42:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/pbthomas.com\/blog\/?p=321"},"modified":"2014-07-20T21:42:00","modified_gmt":"2014-07-20T20:42:00","slug":"the-greatest-is-love-1-corinthians-13","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/pbthomas.com\/blog\/?p=321","title":{"rendered":"The Greatest is Love – 1 Corinthians 13"},"content":{"rendered":"

There\u2019s nothing you can do that can\u2019t be done.
\nNothing you can sing that can\u2019t be sung.
\nNothing you can say but you can learn how to play the game \u2013 It\u2019s easy.
\nThere\u2019s nothing you can make that can\u2019t be made.
\nNo one you can save that can\u2019t be saved.
\nNothing you can do but you can learn how to be you in time \u2013 It\u2019s easy.
\nAll you need is love, all you need is love,
\nAll you need is love, love, love is all you need.
\nThere\u2019s nothing you can know that isn\u2019t known.
\nNothing you can see that isn\u2019t shown.
\nNowhere you can be that isn\u2019t where you\u2019re meant to be. – It\u2019s easy.
\nAll you need is love, all you need is love,
\nAll you need is love, love, love is all you need.
\nOf course John Lennon and Paul McCartney were not the first people to recognize just how important love is. They could easily have taken their inspiration from what the apostle Paul wrote in 1 Corinthians chapter 13.
\nLOVE IS WHAT MATTERS
\nThis is true in the whole of life, and especially true in our own individual Christian lives and in the life of the church. Love is what matters.
\nArguments about spiritual gifts don\u2019t really matter. 1 Corinthians 13:1 If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. 2 If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but have not love, I am nothing.
\nNone of the other things the Corinthians were arguing about really mattered either. Forms of worship don\u2019t really matter. Which group you belong to and which church leader you are following don\u2019t really matter. Love is what matters! Even the ultimate sacrifice of martyrdom would be completely worthless if it was not an expression of love.3 If I give all I possess to the poor and surrender my body to the flames, but have not love, I gain nothing.
\nChristians and churches today really need to listen to what the Bible is saying here. There are so many things which Christians think are important. Our Sunday Services: our hymns and our prayers and even our sermons. Without love they are nothing. All our activities: our Toddlers and our Drop In and our Caf\u00e9. Without love they are nothing. The task of evangelizing the world and the battles for social justice in so many areas. Without love they are nothing. Even the big issues that Churches have been arguing about in recent months: women bishops and same sex marriages. Whether we reach the right answers or the wrong answers \u2013 without love we are wasting our time. But let\u2019s be clear about what kind of love we are talking about here.
\nGOD\u2019s KIND OF LOVE
\nWhen they wrote, \u201cAll you need is love,\u201d Lennon and McCartney were primarily thinking about romantic love. That is what most of their fans were thinking about. But the apostle Paul has a very different kind of love in mind \u2013 a much more wonderful form of love, God\u2019s kind of love.
\n So often when people say they love something, they simply mean they like it very much. Often people use the word love to talk about their passive response to something or to some person. When starry-eyed lovers say they love each other, they simply mean that they like each other very much. \u201cI love you,\u201d sometimes means no more than, \u201cYou please me, you excite me, you make me happy.\u201d
\nBut God\u2019s kind of love is not some passive response but always something very active. Love isn\u2019t something we feel but something we do!
\nThe Christians in Corinth were treating each other appallingly, arguing and splitting into factions yet at the same time tolerating all kinds of outrageous sins. They were using spiritual gifts with pride to score points over each other. So Paul spells out to them what God\u2019s kind of love is like.
\n4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.
\nSometimes love is expressed in actions which bring blessing to the other person. Patience and kindness. Rejoicing with the truth. Protecting. Trusting, Remaining hopeful and never giving up.
\nAnd at the same time love is sometimes expressed by NOT doing something or saying something which would be unloving. God\u2019s kind of love is about NOT being jealous, not boasting or being proud. Not being rude or self seeking. Not getting angry. Deliberately forgetting the wrongs other people have done to us and not being happy when bad things happen to others. This is what God\u2019s kind of love is like. These are the ways God loves us. And these are the ways God calls Christians to love other people as well.
\nThere\u2019s a paradox when we talk about God\u2019s kind of love. Because on the one hand we are commanded to show God\u2019s kind of love to other Christians and also show God\u2019s kind of love to our neighbours. But on the other hand God\u2019s kind of love is impossible for fallen human beings. Because of all our sin we are too selfish and greedy and self-centred and proud to love with the kind of love God has for us. So the command to love is a command we find impossible to obey in our own strength.
\nThe good news is that God gives us the strength to love other people with His kind of love. Romans 5:5 tells us, God has poured out his love into our hearts by the Holy Spirit, whom he has given us. God gives us strength to love through His Holy Spirit living inside us. The fruit the Holy Spirit produces in our lives is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self control. (Galatians 5:22). So a vital part of the Holy Spirit\u2019s work is to produce God\u2019s kind of love in our lives. 1 John 4:19 tells us, \u201cWe love because God first loved us.\u201d
\nThere will be times when our love runs out. When people or situations stretch our patience and our kindness to breaking point. When we feel we have absolutely no love left to give. When that happens, it is good to remember that as well as commanding us to keep on loving, God will also give us the strength we need to keep on loving with His kind of love. 2 Timothy 1:7 reminds us, 7 For God did not give us a spirit of timidity, but a spirit of power, of love and of self-discipline.
\nSo when our love runs out, we should always turn to God and ask Him to give us the strength to love some more.
\nWe have often used 1 Corinthians 13 as a basis for meditation and reflection on our own experiences of loving others. We won\u2019t do that this evening although you may well wish to do so in your own times of devotion tonight or some time this week. But to remind us of what God\u2019s kind of love is like let me just read how Eugene Peterson translates this passage in THE MESSAGE.
\nLove never gives up.
\nLove cares more for others than for self.
\nLove doesn\u2019t want what it doesn\u2019t have.
\nLove doesn\u2019t strut,
\nLove Doesn\u2019t have a swelled head,
\nLove Doesn\u2019t force itself on others,
\nLove Isn\u2019t always \u201cme first,\u201d
\nLove Doesn\u2019t fly off the handle,
\nLove Doesn\u2019t keep score of the sins of others,
\nLove Doesn\u2019t revel when others grovel,
\nLove Takes pleasure in the flowering of truth,
\nLove Puts up with anything,
\nLove Trusts God always,
\nLove Always looks for the best,
\nLove Never looks back,
\nLove keeps going to the end.
\nLove never dies!<\/p>\n

This is God\u2019s kind of love. And the reason that love matters more than anything else is simply because
\nLOVE NEVER DIES
\nGod\u2019s kind of love always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. God\u2019s kind of love never fails. God\u2019s kind of love never runs out!
\nThe Corinthians were arguing about spiritual gifts. But spiritual gifts only have a place in this world, in this life. We won\u2019t need spiritual gifts in heaven!
\n8 Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. 9 For we know in part and we prophesy in part, 10 but when perfection comes, the imperfect disappears.
\nWe only need spiritual gifts now because we aren\u2019t in God\u2019s presence yet. But one day we will be with God in glory. We will see him face to face. Things which are of value to us now won\u2019t be needed any more.
\n 11 When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put childish ways behind me. 12 Now we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.
\nSo many of the things people chase after in this life will cease to exist into eternity. So many of the things which seem to be so important now will be of no significance in heaven. Money, possessions, success, status, position, popularity, prestige. These things will all be irrelevant in heaven. Even the little scraps of knowledge and experience we have accumulated in this life will be unnecessary when we see face to face and know fully even as we are fully known. As the Message puts it, \u201cWe\u2019ll see it all then, see it all as clearly as God sees us,\u201d
\nAs Christians we put so much time and effort into so many things. Our services. Our activities. Our outreach. Our buildings. So many pieces of paper! None of these things will be in heaven with us. The only things from this life which will continue into eternity will be relationships. Our relationships with other people and supremely our relationship with God.
\nOn my Sabbatical in Uganda I was led to a marvellous book by Tim Stafford called \u201cThe Friendship Gap\u201d. He points out that in our busy Western lives we put work before relationships. In contrast, the African way is to put relationships before work. In Africa family and friendships matter more than \u201cgetting the job done\u201d. Over the following six weeks I saw so many examples of that. I began to learn that in Africa, or in England, or anywhere where God is at work, the people matter more than the particular pieces of service. None of our buildings or sermons or projects or leaflets or reports or emails will last into eternity. Only our relationships with people will! That\u2019s why love is the most important thing,
\n13 And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.
\nOnly our faith, our hope and our love will go with us into glory. And the greatest of these is love! Love never dies. Love lasts forever.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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